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Embarking on a journey of sexual exploration can be both a thrilling and daunting adventure, especially in a world overflowing with an extensive array of sex toys. These tools have been designed to cater to all types of desires and preferences, making sure that there's something for everyone and every BODY. Sometimes, toys can be marketed towards certain people, genders, or sexualities. It’s important to remember that all sex toys can be used by anyone. All toys can be used according to personal preferences, but some may be designed with a focus on/or direct replication of the anus, penis, vulva, vagina and similar areas. If you're interested in exploring sexual experiences with someone of the same sex and haven't had the opportunity yet, purchasing a sex toy that aligns with the anatomy you're interested in could provide a way to experiment on your own. Or, for example, you wished to try anal sex but were a little apprehensive. Using a flared-based-dildo on yourself could be a way to experiment on your own. Toys can be powerful tools for self-exploration and experimentation.

However, exploring this sensual terrain comes with some safety considerations, including proper cleaning and storage, which can significantly impact the longevity and safety of your toys. Different materials require their own care routines, and hygiene is so important. So, join us on this comprehensive journey as we navigate the world of sex toys, from selection to maintenance, ensuring safe and satisfying exploration.

	Dildos are commonly used to insert into the body, in some way. They do not vibrate and should be used in conjunction with water-based lube. Never insert a dildo that doesn’t have a flared base into your bum/anus. The rectum has strong muscles that have a sucking effect, pulling objects inside the body. Using a toy with a flared base makes the chances of it getting stuck inside you less likely.
	Vibrators have a little motor inside that make them….vibrate. There are shapes and sizes for any hole and anybody. These can be used internally, externally, or both - the choice is yours. Remember, anything inserted into your bum/anus needs to have a flared base.
	Butt plugs are usually shorter than a dildo and are designed to sit in your bum to maximise your pleasure. Use a butt plug with water-based lube for a slippery time when you insert one. Never insert a dildo/butt plug that doesn’t have a flared base.
	Anal Beads are used by inserting a bead into the bum/anus one at a time and are to be used with water-based lube. Inserting the beads can stimulate the anal nerve endings.
	Cock Sleeve/Masturbation sleeve/Fleshlight/Strokers are a ‘sleeve’ like device that you slide your cock into, which mimics sucking or rolling actions, or both. Sleeves are best used with water-based lube. Remember to follow all cleaning instructions carefully - sleeves can have lots of nooks and crannies where lube and cum can end up.
	Cock rings sit around the base of the cock, or balls, or both. They are used to restrict the blood flow to and from your cock and/or balls and can intensify your orgasm and can also make you last a little longer. Cock rings come with many cautions though - it's recommended to get a good quality silicone cock ring and never exceed 20 minutes of use at a time. For more information on cock-rings and safety tips head here.

Cleaning your toys

Sex toys can be expensive. Taking care of your toys means that you can use them safely and for as long as possible, stretching out their life span.

Sex toys aren’t all made equal, and they are often made out of different materials, so cleaning and storing them will differ depending on what they’re made from. Sex toys can be made from either porous (with many little holes where bacteria can be trapped) or non-porous (no small holes and easier to clean) materials. Examples of common porous materials that sex toys are made from are rubber, jelly and latex. Common non-porous materials are medical-grade silicone, glass and metal, to name a few. We recommend choosing non-porous sex toys to make sure that you can clean your toys properly.

Cleaning Checklist:

Pre-Clean Inspection: Before each use, carefully inspect the toy for any cracks, tears, or imperfections. Discard any damaged toys to avoid potential harm or bacterial growth.

Wash Before and After: Clean your toys both before and after each use. Use warm water and mild, fragrance-free soap to gently cleanse the surfaces. Pay special attention to textured areas where bacteria can hide.

Material Matters: Different toys are made from different materials. Be sure to use a suitable cleaner that won't degrade the material. Silicone, glass, and stainless-steel toys can often be cleaned with soap and water, while porous materials like jelly and rubber may require a specific toy cleaner.

Avoid Cross-Contamination: To prevent bacterial transfer, dry your toys separately and avoid contact with other surfaces during drying. For example, use a clean towel to dry your toys on.

For more information on how to clean a Fleshlight, visit here.

For more information on how to clean all other sex toys, visit here.

Storage

Correct storage of your sex toys is vital for their longevity. The biggest tip is to clean and dry your toys before putting them away. Leaving bodily fluids or lube on the sex toy can degrade the material and make your sex toy unsafe for future use.

A dedicated box kept in a cool and dry area of your home is ideal for when the toys aren't in use. We also recommend keeping each toy in a separate compartment or bag. Using satin bags to put your sex toys in is a great way to keep them safe. Conveniently, many sex toys come with a bag to keep them in already - how handy.

For more information on how to safely store your toys visit here.